Rinda Angom
Having friends enriches our lives because they provide support, companionship, and joy. However, in the course of our lives, our friendships change as well. For instance, it can be difficult to stay in touch with friends who don't have children after becoming a parent. You may find that your priorities and schedules are different, and it can be tough to find time to catch up. Nevertheless, they provide diversity and perspective into our lives, which is why it is necessary to maintain these relationships. The purpose of this blog post is to share some tips on how to stay in touch with friends who don't have kids and keep those relationships going. Here are some tips that may help:
1. Set expectations: Be upfront with your friends about your parenting responsibilities and your availability. Let them know when you're available for activities and when you're available to hang out.
2. Be Flexible: You might have to adjust your plans frequently based on your child's schedule, so make sure you are flexible when making plans with your friends. In case of cancellation of plans, keep them informed as soon as possible.
3. Get them involved: Invite your friends to your child's events, such as a barbecue or a trip to the park. This can be an excellent way for your childless friends to get to know your family and be involved in your life.
4. Consider planning adult-only outings: Schedule some time to catch up with adult friends without your kids. Maintaining a separate identity from parenting and having adult conversations are important too.
5. Keep in touch: Stay in touch with your childless friends through phone calls, text messages, or social media. Staying connected with your friends can keep your friendship alive, even if you don't get to see each other as much as you'd like.
Remember, maintaining friendships takes effort from both parties. Communicating openly, being flexible, and making time for each other is essential.